Patience is a virtue that without a doubt I completely lack. I can't stand traffic, waiting in long lines or being put on hold during a phone call...all because I do not like waiting. My dad use to tell me allllll the time in his calm and relaxed voice to " be patient and wait my turn". Easier for him to say than for me to practice! I still struggle with the concept of "being patient" (just ask my mother!)
The wise and experienced have said something along the lines of "good things come to those who wait" or " the best is yet to come [just wait]". In time past, these common nuggets of wisdom have gone in one ear and out the other as I impatiently complain about whatever situation I am encountered with. This is probably the main reason for all the bumps I have encountered in life. (Aha!)
Anyway, you may be wondering where am I going with this blog post. Well, this past week I was reading my dear, smart and wise friend, Anali's blog posting that really made me think and inspired me to do some of my own ramblings. You have to read her post. It is so timely, blunt and well-written. Check it out: Oh Dear Love
I couldn't agree more with all that she had to say. She was right on!
Soooo glad for friends who are so strong and grounded with what they believe!
So the topic is: love
You know that warm fuzzy feeling you get in the pit of your stomach when you see that real cute drummer boy across the church. You can't stop giggling or even think straight. Your phone is glued to your hand because all you do is text him nonstop. You have been hit by cupid and have immediately started practicing your new last name with hearts and curly ques.
Been there? Done that? Can write a blog post about it?
Ha! Amen, Amen & Amen!
By the way, this is far from the true and real meaning behind this famous four letter word. ;)
(this is a girl's scenario, but it's happen to guys too!)
Earlier this year I read a real good book called When God Writes Your Love Story. This book is good. So good that I recommend that all young people read it at least twice. I honestly wished I read it sooner, I might have been a little more wiser to avoid some bumps in the road if I had. It is written by a married couple and they both talk about their personal journey and struggles with their love lives. It is an easy read and full of insightful nuggets/suggestions/advice for all ages.
The main thing that these authors wanted to get across was to "hand God the pen" and allow him to write our love story. Who better to write the perfect love story for us than our Creator? It is a great concept. So many times we hold on tightly to the pen while God is just waiting for us to let Him have. He knows what is best for us and what we really need. We just make messes when we take control of things...at least that's how it goes for me! Without God's guidance I am like a blind bat constantly flying into a cave wall. SMACK! This book also touched on thedreaded topic of singleness and it was emphasized that it really isn't a curse. It is a time to learn, grow and more importantly to get closer to God. I have been so guilty of looking at singleness as such a bad thing...but in reality it is my time to shine and be what God wants me to be. What an amazing thought! Plus, God knows what He is doing even though I worry at times!
I am 26. I will be 30 before I know it. I am single. TOTALLY single...not even close to marriage. Typically this is depressing. HA. Especially for a girl who wants her happy ending. However, just like my dad has always told me, I have to be patient. Oh the joy in that! But in all seriousness, I truly believe that waiting and allowing God to do all the work is the best decision I am making (even if sometimes I just want to throw in the towel and lose hope!). It is the best decision all of us can make. There are so many amazing love stories where God was completely in control...they are so cute you almost want to puke! HA! I want that. I want the perfect love story. The one that is authored by the greatest writer ever!
So, in order for that to happen. I must be patient. I must wait. I must ignore the urges of cutting in line. I also must take this blessed time being single as an opportunity to better myself and my walk with God. As well as preparing myself for my future. I gladly hand the pen to my life to the One I trust the most.
Why? Because it is worth the wait.
Now, go grab that book and let's start a book club ;) (Ahem, Christy!!!)
(disclaimer: this book is full of goodness, but it really isn't anything new or we haven't heard before from our elders.
It is just a friendly reminder)
(this is a girl's scenario, but it's happen to guys too!)
Earlier this year I read a real good book called When God Writes Your Love Story. This book is good. So good that I recommend that all young people read it at least twice. I honestly wished I read it sooner, I might have been a little more wiser to avoid some bumps in the road if I had. It is written by a married couple and they both talk about their personal journey and struggles with their love lives. It is an easy read and full of insightful nuggets/suggestions/advice for all ages.
The main thing that these authors wanted to get across was to "hand God the pen" and allow him to write our love story. Who better to write the perfect love story for us than our Creator? It is a great concept. So many times we hold on tightly to the pen while God is just waiting for us to let Him have. He knows what is best for us and what we really need. We just make messes when we take control of things...at least that's how it goes for me! Without God's guidance I am like a blind bat constantly flying into a cave wall. SMACK! This book also touched on the
I am 26. I will be 30 before I know it. I am single. TOTALLY single...not even close to marriage. Typically this is depressing. HA. Especially for a girl who wants her happy ending. However, just like my dad has always told me, I have to be patient. Oh the joy in that! But in all seriousness, I truly believe that waiting and allowing God to do all the work is the best decision I am making (even if sometimes I just want to throw in the towel and lose hope!). It is the best decision all of us can make. There are so many amazing love stories where God was completely in control...they are so cute you almost want to puke! HA! I want that. I want the perfect love story. The one that is authored by the greatest writer ever!
So, in order for that to happen. I must be patient. I must wait. I must ignore the urges of cutting in line. I also must take this blessed time being single as an opportunity to better myself and my walk with God. As well as preparing myself for my future. I gladly hand the pen to my life to the One I trust the most.
Why? Because it is worth the wait.
Now, go grab that book and let's start a book club ;) (Ahem, Christy!!!)
(disclaimer: this book is full of goodness, but it really isn't anything new or we haven't heard before from our elders.
It is just a friendly reminder)
And for all those of you who have waited (waiting) and allowed (allowing) God to write your story:
I applaud you!
For those who may have gotten impatient like yours truly: No worries! Just hand God the pen and let him create a masterpiece!
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